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What If Fights Did the OPPOSITE of Driving Her Away?

Argue Like a Superhero &

Turn Fights into Attraction

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The Mistake Most Men Make In Arguments With Her:

Think of a typical fight with her...
  • It starts out of nowhere, and soon it's a verbal boxing match
  • She attacks, you defend. You attack, she defends
  • And once you both grow frustrated and tired, you try to negotiate and repair
  • Only to both feel disappointed afterwards, no matter who won or lost
Because you know that fight was about nothing. And you lie awake at night knowing it isn't over...

You Can End This Painful Pattern IF You...

Make Her Feel Safe & Argue Like A Superhero


Think of Superman.

Now think of Lois Lane yelling at him in their kitchen...
  • He remains calm, letting her speak and hearing her every word
  • But like he sees through walls, he sees the deeper meaning of her words
  • Her verbal 'attacks' can't hurt him. They bounce off easily (like bullets)
  • ​He asks her to share all her feelings until she is spent. He stands there strong and unwounded...
Until finally he moves slowly forward to hold her at the waist...

Telling her how much he loves her — before she melts into his arms.

And no matter who started the argument, he always handled it the same way...

This can be your story!

Superpowers Might Be Fiction — But Super Communication isn't!

Good news! Staying

Calm ISN'T a Superpower!

I used to just turn red and go on anger autopilot whenever she started a fight or did something I didn't like...

Now I can put that aside and remain unwavering like an oak tree — without letting any resentment build.

Here's the secret...

It's Easy to Stay Calm IF...

You Don't FEEL Attacked!

It's easy to assume something she does or says is an attack. But neither of you WANTS to hurt the other...

When you realise she isn't trying to hurt you, and even that it hurts HER to hurt you — that's when you start changing the game...

Because you won't feel a need to defend if there's no attacker.

And I'll give you the shortcut to get you there fast.

“But Can I Really Transform Fights into Attraction?"

I know how you feel. In any arguments I'd have with her I would come away basically emasculated. I'd be made to feel not just wrong, but incompetent (ouch). 

But eventually I noticed a pattern to our fights...

Everything we were arguing about might change on the surface, but underneath it was always about the same thing...

She Wanted to Feel SAFE

Not just 'protected,' but SAFE in that she feels confident she 'bet on the right horse' to share her life with.

Think about it.
  • It's not that you spent your joint savings, it's that she's AFRAID you don't care about her future or input.
  • ​It's not that you don't help with housework, it's that she's AFRAID her contribution isn't appreciated.
  • ​It's not that you don't want to spend time with her family, it's that she's AFRAID you reject a core part of her life.
She sees these as THREATS to the relationship. She fears she made the wrong choice for her future (and she wants to be proven wrong)!

“Ok, but what does ATTRACTION have to do with SAFETY?”

For eons her biology focused her on men who would ensure her and her children's survival. This goes deeper than looks...

She needs evidence of 3 key things. That you...

1. Have effortless control over your life
2. Have a worthy direction for your life 
3. Choose her to share your life with

And when she has evidence of all 3 of these, THAT'S when she'll feel safest with you!

REMEMBER

She's Attracted to the Good Choice

The one who will help her SURVIVE!

And fights are powerful opportunities to show her you ARE a good choice!

But reassuring words won't cut it. You have to DEMONSTRATE!
  • Show control by being grounded and creating a safe space
  • Show direction by safely leading and encouraging the discussion
  • Show you choose her by making her feel heard, valued & loved...
And these are even 10X more important to her than fixing the problem itself!

Here is EVERYTHING You Need To

Transform Fights

into Love & Attraction

  • Attractive Arguing System (value $247)
  • ​Women Decoded (value $127)
  • Calm Anchoring Method (value $127)
  • ​Resentment Firewall (value $147)
  • ​Secure Vulnerability (value $127)
  • ​Resolution Action Planner (value $57)
  • ​🎁 Fast-Action Bonus: Fight Scripts & Case Studies (value $147)

Total Value: $979

$37 Today!

8 Reasons

To Argue Attractively NOW:

✅ Reason #1: No Emasculation
I don't know about you, but I hate feeling like my manhood is under attack. With Attractive Arguing you can navigate fights from a place of relaxed strength, and in a way that she will thank you for. This doesn't just preserve your manhood in arguments — it increases it.
✅ Reason #2: No Counselling
Forget lengthy counselling sessions and rigidly negotiating the terms of your relationship like it’s a business deal. That's no fun. When you have a systemised process for fights you can lead her with confidence and enjoy as she gladly follows you.
✅ Reason #3: No Losers
One of you always gets hurt — and the other always feels bad for doing the hurting! Victory doesn't have to come at a cost. Use Attractive Arguing to transform the anger & frustration into love & attraction, and you'll BOTH walk away winners.
✅ Reason #4: Less Risk to Relationship
Every fight that's poorly navigated drives another wedge between you. You might patch things up, but patches aren't very strong, are they? When you focus MORE on love and attraction than fixing the problem, your relationship will become stronger (even IF the problem itself doesn't get fixed).
✅ Reason #5: More Attraction
Using Attractive Arguing will make you feel like you don't have to avoid fights like the plague! Instead you'll start seeing them as OPPORTUNITIES to make her more attracted to you every time. All by being the masculine rock that makes her feel safe, protected and appreciated as a woman.
✅ Reason #6: Deeper Connection
Bad fights reinforce to her that you don't understand her — and that's a recipe for rapid disconnection. When you join the 1% and decode her emotional drivers you'll be able to give her what she truly wants and needs. Not just in fights, but in your relationship as a whole.
✅ Reason #7: Upward Spiral
When you use our systemised approach to arguing you will not only create WIN:WIN situations, but also apply prevention measures to ensure that future fights are few and far between. And every time you apply Attractive Arguing, things get BETTER in your relationship — not worse.
✅ Reason #8: Be Her Hero
Arguments become chaotic — because you don't have a system. Spoiler alert: NO ONE has a system (until now)! Get ready, because when you know the lay of the land you'll be super comfortable in the driver's seat. You get to be her hero, bringing her safely back from chaos and into love.

The 4-STEP  

Attractive Arguing Success Path

STEP

#1

#1: Create Safety

Arguments are only a problem when they become hostile situations where it's either attack or defend.

Don't worry. I'll show you how to easily create a safe space by 'putting down the sword' and 'being her rock' — WITHOUT feeling weak.

#2: Encourage Sharing

Ever told her to calm down? I imagine that didn't go well...

She won't feel the need to attack — IF you encourage and hear out her emotions in full. And yes! You'll get detailed steps on exactly how to do this.

STEP

#2

STEP

#3

#3: Rescue Her Heart

This will surprise you, but safety and connection are MUCH more important to her than simply 'fixing' the problem...

I'll show you how to step up as her hero and dissolve her emotional pain (and the problem) in a way that multiplies her love and attraction towards you. Yes, really.

#4: Celebrate 🎉

Congratulations. At this point you have successfully transformed your first fight into deeper attraction and love. 

Now it's time to put in place simple prevention measures and enjoy that upward spiral of lasting happiness and harmony.

STEP

#4

The 4-STEP  

Attractive Arguing Success Path

STEP

#1

#1: Create Safety

Arguments are only a problem when they become hostile situations where it's either attack or defend.

Don't worry. I'll show you how to easily create a safe space by 'putting down the sword' and 'being her rock' — WITHOUT feeling weak.

#2: Encourage Sharing

Ever told her to calm down? I imagine that didn't go well...

She won't feel the need to attack — IF you encourage and hear out her emotions in full. And yes! You'll get detailed steps on exactly how to do this.

STEP

#2

STEP

#3

#3: Rescue Her Heart

This will surprise you, but safety and connection are MUCH more important to her than simply 'fixing' the problem...

I'll show you how to step up as her hero and dissolve her emotional pain (and the problem) in a way that multiplies her love and attraction towards you. Yes, really.

#4: Celebrate 🎉

Congratulations. At this point you have successfully transformed your first fight into deeper attraction and love. 

Now it's time to put in place simple prevention measures and enjoy that upward spiral of lasting happiness and harmony.

STEP

#4

Here Is EVERYTHING You Need To

Transform Fights

into Love & Attraction

Here Is EVERYTHING You Need To

Transform Fights

into Love & Attraction

The Attractive Arguing System

Forget about going into fights anxious, unprepared and with no direction.

The system is a structured approach to navigating arguments in a way that brings you closer — and makes her more attracted.

You'll be guided with quick and clear step-by-step videos so you can start transforming your relationship with ease.

Bonus #1

Women Decoded

Ever felt like some arguments come completely out of nowhere?

No more worrying or waiting for her to snap. This guide breaks down the mind of a woman, shows you what she really wants, and helps you diagnose the root cause of a fight.

With this knowledge in your pocket you'll be better equipped to troubleshoot arguments and 10X the depth of love and connection.

Bonus #2

Calm Anchoring Method

Once your emotions start running the show, it's game over. This fight is going nowhere good!

Luckily you can anchor yourself to calm and control quick and easy, without suppressing your emotions.

These short videos will show you the clear path to calm so you can have discussions — not arguments.

Bonus #3

Resentment Firewall

Don't wait for resentment to fester into bickering or a full-blown screaming match.

With Resentment Firewall you'll get an easy prevention strategy so you can maintain harmony and enjoy an upward spiral of love and connection.

Follow the strategy properly and you might just forget the last time you even had a fight.

Bonus #4

Secure Vulnerability

I get it. For ages even the idea of sharing my emotions as a man made me feel 🤮.

These videos will show you the secret way to talk about feelings securely and in a way that actually makes her more attracted to you, not less. Seriously.

And once you apply this you'll enjoy a huge weight off your shoulders.

Bonus #5

Resolution Action Planner

Failure to plan is planning to fail, so if something doesn't change then the pattern is at risk of repeating...

Use this quick Action Planner to develop a simple plan to resolve recurring issues.

And whether it's an action plan for you, for her, or for the both of you — you'll be able to create a plan together that's low stress and easy to stick to.

The Attractive Arguing System

Forget about going into fights anxious, unprepared and with no direction.

The system is a structured approach to navigating arguments in a way that brings you closer — and makes her more attracted.

You'll be guided with quick and clear step-by-step videos so you can start transforming your relationship with ease.

Bonus #1

Women Decoded

Ever felt like some arguments come completely out of nowhere?

No more worrying or waiting for her to snap. This guide breaks down the mind of a woman, shows you what she really wants, and helps you diagnose the root cause of a fight.

With this knowledge in your pocket you'll be better equipped to troubleshoot arguments and 10X the depth of love and connection.

Bonus #2

Calm Anchoring Method

Once your emotions start running the show, it's game over. This fight is going nowhere good!

Luckily you can anchor yourself to calm and control quick and easy, without suppressing your emotions.

These short videos will show you the clear path to calm so you can have discussions — not arguments.

Bonus #3

Resentment Firewall

Don't wait for resentment to fester into bickering or a full-blown screaming match.

With Resentment Firewall you'll get an easy prevention strategy so you can maintain harmony and enjoy an upward spiral of love and connection.

Follow the strategy properly and you might just forget the last time you even had a fight.

Bonus #4

Secure Vulnerability

I get it. For ages even the idea of sharing my emotions as a man made me feel 🤮.

These videos will show you the secret way to talk about feelings securely and in a way that actually makes her more attracted to you, not less. Seriously.

And once you apply this you'll enjoy a huge weight off your shoulders.

Bonus #5

Resolution Action Planner

Failure to plan is planning to fail, so if something doesn't change then the pattern is at risk of repeating...

Use this quick Action Planner to develop a simple plan to resolve recurring issues.

And whether it's an action plan for you, for her, or for the both of you — you'll be able to create a plan together that's low stress and easy to stick to.

Grand Opening on December 15th

The member section with all the Attractive Arguing content will be ready to welcome you on December 15th 2021. But if you decide to join the program before it starts, I have a special bonus for you.

Reserve Your Seat Before We Launch and Get This FAST-Action Bonus

On the launch day (Dec 15), the bonus listed below won't be for FREE as a part of the Attractive Arguing program anymore. But you can grab it now for FREE in this pre-sale period.

FAST-Action Bonus:

Fight Scripts & Case Studies

In the core program you'll get everything you need to dissolve arguments into love and attraction like a superhero. But it can help to look over someone's shoulder to see exactly how they do it...

These scripts show you EXACTLY what to say at key moments, and you'll get analysis commentary that explains what each party is thinking and feeling at every step.

I'm also including full video examples all so you can simply copy my attitude and delivery — AND I'll show you a little trick so you don't need to remember every bit. Easy peasy.

Value: $147

P.S. We’ll be selling this as a standalone course later, but you can get it for FREE only during this presale period.

Here is EVERYTHING You Need To

Transform Fights

into Love & Attraction

  • Attractive Arguing System (value $247)
  • ​Women Decoded (value $127)
  • Calm Anchoring Method (value $127)
  • ​Resentment Firewall (value $147)
  • ​Secure Vulnerability (value $127)
  • ​Resolution Action Planner (value $57)
  • ​🎁 Fast-Action Bonus: Fight Scripts & Case Studies (value $147)

Total Value: $979

$37 Today!

“Hey, I'm Ashford Thomas...
...and I help men to create romantically passionate & harmonious relationships”

I'm a writer, consultant, and a bit of a geek. But most importantly I'm just a regular guy who's fascinated by the dance between masculine and feminine.

I'm grateful I've had the opportunity to work with men all around the world to transform their romantic lives.
And now I help men everywhere to utilise the Attractive Arguing strategy. 

Because in my opinion, this is the best strategy to make her 10x more attracted and connected to you without wasting time or energy.

30-Day Money Back Guarantee

Look, let’s be honest. You don’t know me (probably), and I don’t know you...

Why should you trust me when there is a high chance you have bought a course before from somebody else (who you didn’t know at that time) and it flopped, right?

I decided to take all the risks from your shoulders and give you a full 30 days to go through the program.
Because it's a presale and the Attractive Arguing System is going to be launching on December 15th 2021, your guarantee is extended until January 15th 2022.

During this time you can decide if it is worth the price. If not just send us an email to support@ashfordthomas.com and we’ll send you a refund right away! 

Say BYE-BYE to...

✅  Say bye-bye to having the same arguments over and over. With Attractive Arguing you'll be able to quickly break out of this emotional Groundhog Day, lay a problem to rest, and enjoy an upward spiral of peace and harmony. 

✅  Say bye-bye to fights being LOSE:LOSE. One of you has their ego bruised, the other feels like the villain. No thankyou! I'll show you how arguments can be WIN:WIN with NO emasculation, NO hurting each other, and NO sacrifice. 

✅  Say bye-bye to tip-toeing around her emotions. Buckle up! Because if you follow the system properly you'll be able to navigate her moods with ease and create a safe space so that no seeds of resentment can be planted or grown.

Now is the time.
Stop letting fights destroy your relationship:

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is the Attractive Arguing System for?

The system is specifically designed for men in long-term relationships who want to enjoy less fights while actually making her more attracted and connected to him as a man.

Who shouldn't buy this?

This system isn't right for women, or for any man who isn't ready to keep an open mind or be patient with his ego.

How is it different from other courses?

It's the only program in the world that 1. Is a systemised approach to resolving fights, 2. Helps men transmute arguments into attraction, and 3. Empowers men to affect huge change in their relationship without her following the program too.

It takes two to tango, so don't I need her to work on this too?

You'd be surprised. Although you're a team, she looks to the man to lead. You'll experience how easily resentments and fights can be transformed simply by creating a safe space for her to share her feelings, and leading her with love.
Is the content available right away?

Not yet! We're putting the finishing touches on everything to be available for full access on Dec 15th.

I can feel unattractive and, well, weak when I share my feelings — so I don't. Is that a problem?

I know right? This is a core part of why I created this system. I've included a whole section on how to share your feelings with strength, and not in a way that makes you feel like less of a man.

What if I don't like the program and decide this isn't for me?

No worries. I stand by my work. If you decide to buy this program in the presale period, you can ask for your money back by January 15, 2022. But, if you get stuck and still want to use my scripts, here's the quick fix: message me personally on Instagram @ashford_thomas and I'll help you move forward as smoothly as I can.

Here is EVERYTHING You Need To

Transform Fights

into Love & Attraction

  • Attractive Arguing System (value $247)
  • ​Women Decoded (value $127)
  • Calm Anchoring Method (value $127)
  • ​Resentment Firewall (value $147)
  • ​Secure Vulnerability (value $127)
  • ​Resolution Action Planner (value $57)
  • ​🎁 Fast-Action Bonus: Fight Scripts & Case Studies (value $147)

Total Value: $979

$37 Today!

If you have any questions or need further information, please email us at support@ashfordthomas.com
Copyright @ Ashford Thomas

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